Unbelievable but true. I have went through all the wedding plannings, went through a day of strict wedding schedule, have the pastor sign official paper and mailed it back, and went to a week of honeymoon on Paris. (Yes I will write extensively about Paris later)
That is a defining moment of life. Life (after 30s) is a 2 player game. We are built that way. And yes, everything is different after you're married. Most SHOULD be different in a good way.
Anything different in a bad way needs to be trained to become a good way, because life IS a 2 player game.
Marriage is best at your 20s where your life is at peak. 30s are still ok. The earlier 30s the better. I don't want to think wedding at 40s and beyond.
Time pushes you to new stage of life. If you are in 30s you should not be thinking about what to wear in your high school prom (ok, unless you are doing high school at 30s). You are not going to think wedding decoration at 70s? (ok, unless you really are getting married when you are at 70)
When single, you need a LOT of friends to help you on your wedding. You especially need a few buddies as best man and groomsmen. How many buddies do you have that qualifies to be your BEST man? Ok if you have a brother or a similar age cousin you don't have to think.
Ok, it depends on how big a wedding you want to have. Having a quiet, just 2 families wedding is no fun though?
You don't need to be overstressed in wedding planning. Do it as if doing any major project: identify what you need to do, do it! When possible, delegate it to people who you trust (that's why you need a lot of friends). Reading other people's plan help. But it is best to have your own plans. You are your own most trustworthy ally.
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With in laws and children, school teachers - marriage is a multiplayer virtual world.
People should be married at 20's, yes, but repetitive and silly school keep people immature until will in mid 20's, with no money.
How many Algebra problems must I do to pass this subject?
So people are forced to be married at 30's; wasting 10 years of happiness at least.
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